9/29/2015

My Sabbath Week Plans and Our Life in Pictures

This is our 7th week of school; it's our "Sabbath Week." It's so nice to have a little break to get some things done. Of course, I usually don't get *that* much done, but we gotta shoot for the stars, right?

On my To Do list for this week:

- change and wash all bedding
- get together 2-3 baby shower games for shower on Sunday
- purge kids' toys
- organize homeschool stuff (since I really didn't get to it before school started.)
- organize and clean desk (home office area)
- organize "junk" drawer

I'm positive I won't get all of this done. In fact, I'll be happy if I can get two of them done. :)

Note: I started this post this morning and it is now almost 8pm. I have half of the bedding done. That's all. *cough*

Here is the latest from our family in pictures:

We live near a wonderful state park that we don't visit nearly enough. I took the kids out there last week and we found some treasures on the beach! I'm hoping to share our Nature Journal entries soon!

It's tough to get a picture with them all smiling at the same time. Aren't they cute, though?


Our treasures...


The seeds on the very left of the picture are oak seed pods! I've NEVER seen them before. The picture doesn't do them justice because they are a very bright neon green with red spots! Cool, eh?!

Our Tussock caterpillar has cocooned! (That's a verb, right?)


Can't wait to see what he'll look like!


And remember our White Lined Sphinx Caterpillar


...well, here she is! Also known as a Hummingbird Moth!! This was definitely the highlight of our  week! ;o)

In the following picture, she's flapping her wings SO FAST - like a hummingbird! We let her go because I felt bad keeping her. But what a wonderful find!


Here's Middlest holding the empty chrysalis. :)


Littlest "helping" with Circle Time... I love homeschooling. :) 


 Movie night. :)

 Have a great rest of the week! I'm hoping to get a few things done at home, so it might be quiet around here for a bit. See you on the other side!

9/28/2015

Why We Love Charlotte Mason

I wanted to write a follow up to my Highfalutin Charlotte Masoners post because while I don't think it's complicated (pick a composer and listen to it), it isn't quite that simple. At least the philosophy behind it isn't.

Note: Take all of this with a grain of salt--I've only been homeschooling for TWO YEARS. ;o)

And it's the philosophy, the why behind it, that really speaks to me. In my own life, reading Charlotte Mason's works have affected more than just homeschooling. It's affected the way I parent and how *I* look at the world. Which is kind of amazing, if you think about it.

On top of that, Charlotte Mason knew children. She knew how they learned and how to reach them. She believed in giving them respect, beautiful and true ideas to "feast" on, and a love for learning. Most importantly, she believed in teaching them all of these things because of who they were (are) in Christ.

At first I was apprehensive, because as you may know, she actually didn't have any children of her own. But if you read her books you will soon see that she did know a thing or two about children. And she loved them.

So yes, a Charlotte Mason education doesn't have be complicated, but it is so much more than nature study and narration. :)

There are so many people who talk about her and her philosophies much better than I can. Go to my "Blog Roll" tab and check under the "Homeschooling" section for some of them!

For more on what Mason believed, this page at Ambleside Online is very helpful! And again, here are books to read for FREE at Ambleside Online.

PS This post by Nancy Kelly is fantastic - Love Affairs in Education or The Thing is the Thing

Read a sort of Part 3 here.

9/27/2015

Highfalutin Charlotte Masoners



I love, love, love homeschooling using the Charlotte Mason method. And I feel like I've just scratched the surface into what that means!

But a CM homeschool can seem...a little stuffy or highfalutin (for my southern friends; that's a southern word, no?)
Littlest "helping" in Circle Time. *swoon*

I'm sometimes careful who I talk to and what I say about our homeschool because I never want to come across Holier Than Thou. But it's not easy to do that when you tell someone you're doing Composer Study with your 6 year old. (In my opinion, it shouldn't seem stuffy, but in this culture and time, it just does sometimes. And if I'm honest, if I'm surrounded by CM'ers, online or in real life, I sometimes feel like the odd man out. I didn't even go to college for crying out loud!)

Even so, a Charlotte Mason education IS attainable for EVERYONE. (Read: if I can do it, you can do it.)

Some things we do in our school week:
- Shakespeare
- Poetry
- Nature Study
- Composer Study
- Artist Study
- Literature readings

Sounds pretty lofty doesn't it? Let me break it down for you. *does running man dance*

-:- For Shakespeare, we read a couple of paragraphs from Lamb's Tales from Shakespeare (or the Bruce Coville's Shakespeare books -- highly recommend those for 8 and under!). Then I might ask what my kids think of it. The end.

-:- For Composer Study, we listen to classical music by a composer once or twice a week. The end. 

-:- For Artist Study we look at a painting by a particular artist once or twice a week. We may talk about what we like and try to describe the painting to each other. The end. 

-:- Nature Study? We draw something we see in Nature. A pine-cone. Or a tree. Or a snowflake. Or a caterpillarThe end.

Of course, it's a leetle more complicated than that, but not much! We are just giving our children beautiful things to think about (Mason refers to it as a "feast") and letting them take from them what they will. The mom (or teacher) stays out of the way as much as possible.

Obviously it really helps to know the "Why" behind having your 6 year old listen to classical music in the car on the way to gymnastics. So I highly recommend reading Mason's books if you're interested. (read them HERE for free!)

But you can just start with one thing. It doesn't have to be complicated. Find an artist you like, print a picture and put it where your kids can see it. You don't even have to talk about it, except to say, "Monet painted that. Cool, eh?" Easy peasy.

We do Reading, Writing and 'Rithmetic as well. But by offering more than just those things, we hope to grow an awareness of a bigger world than the one we see out our front porch, while appreciating the world we see out our front porch. More importantly, learning, no matter how it's done, is just giving us a glimpse of our Creator. 

For the record, we do not sit around with white gloves and hats on, sipping tea and eating crumpets whilst I wax eloquent about The Bard of Avon, dahling.

Not that there's anything wrong with that. Ahem. 

(have you seen this book, though?)



Quite honestly, if you were a fly on the wall in my house, it would probably look pretty similar to yours. It might be louder though.

We don't just listen to classical music (we love Josh Garrels), we don't sit around and stare at beautiful paintings all day (we watch movies like Big Hero 6), we don't only read great literature. (Tacky, anyone?)



But we do include those things because they are good and beautiful things. And they are a reflection of who God is. :)

This post from My Peace in the Puzzle spurred me to write this post. She's much more eloquent, so go read hers! From her post:

Yes, we do composer study, but again it’s not a bunch of memorizing of dates or places or events.  No tests.  No quizzes.  No worksheets.  We spend time just listening to and appreciating the music.  This year we are studying medieval history so our composer for this term is Hildegard of Bingen.  Now, calm down.  Don’t feel dumb if you’ve never heard of her.  I hadn’t either.

Of course, every mother chooses what is best for her family. I'm just telling you what we think is best for ours and hopefully, if any of you have thought me Too Big for My Britches for doing a CM homeschool, your thoughts have changed! :)

Read Why We Love Charlotte Mason (or Part 2) HERE.
And here is a sort of Part 3.

9/22/2015

Paring Down

As I mentioned in my last post, I and some friends went to a small Charlotte Mason gathering in Rochester, MN Saturday. Nancy Kelly was the speaker and it was so encouraging! It was especially nice because it was quite small--I believe there were less than 20 ladies present. There was an extended Q & A time afterwards and we got to ask Nancy as many questions as we could! eeek! It. was. awesome.

So.

After hearing Nancy speak about narrating, living books, schedules and the like, I've come to a few conclusions.

First, I need to pare down what we're doing in our school. (I've already made the adjustments to my Weekly Schedule which I'll try and post later.)

With my rambunctious, adorable 2 year old and a not-so-docile 5 year old, I just can't spend hours and hours homeschooling. And I don't have to. (at least not yet. :) I actually wasn't spending hours homeschooling. But it seemed like it because our school day is so broken up by my Lovable Interruptions. So for this stage in life, I have to pare down.

Second, my 7 year old knows more history than I did when I graduated high school. I'm not even exaggerating. (thanks to the wonderful book lists and curriculum at AO!) To worry that we're getting enough history in is just silly. (Read: I'm paring down.)

Thirdly, even if we only memorize *one* poem per school year, that will be TWELVE poems that my children have memorized. Now, of course, we'll memorize more than that, but *I* don't even have twelve poems memorized! So I can just go ahead and relax a little bit about how much we're doing. (Read: I'm paring down.)

And the fourth (but not last!) thing is that reading even 2 or 3 great living books at a time and narrating them is still a great education! We don't have to read (or narrate!) every single book that a curriculum says to or put pressure on ourselves to do It All. (Read: wait for it.... I'm paring down.)

Oldest is only in second grade. I need to keep reminding myself that we don't have to do All The Things. And going through a few great books and keeping the peace in our home is better than rushing through a ton of books which makes a Grumpy Mama. And Grumpy Mama is *not* conducive to the home atmosphere that I'd like in our home. Weird, eh?

Instead of starting with a list of 6-8 books to get through each day and then only reading 2 or 3 of them and feeling like we didn't accomplish all we "should" have, I'm going to have a goal of reading 2 or 3 books (TOTAL) a day and if we do them all--great! If there's time for more--great! If not, I'll still feel like we're moving forward. (Have you seen this great post by Nancy about being careful about the number and kind of books you choose?)

Education is an atmosphere, a discipline and a life. (principle #5) It's not checking off the boxes, thankyouverymuch.

Which reminds me, that thing I said in my last post about switching from Teacher Mom to Mama Mom? Well, I don't think there's a difference. I think that our "school" day should flow seamlessly into the rest of our day and life. I'm not saying it *does* yet, but that's the goal.

Most of these things I realized and was reminded of after hearing Nancy speak. If you EVER get the chance to hear her talk about Charlotte Mason DO NOT PASS IT UP. :) (Even if you don't do a CM school--these things are applicable to all of us.) :)

I keep telling myself this is our homeschool journey and we are just starting. It's easy for me to want everything perfect RIGHT NOW. And it never will be! Our lives will always be changing and my family's needs will always be changing. I need to rely on the Holy Spirit to be the One who guides my decisions and attitudes and my *children's* decisions and attitudes!

Which reminds me, a while ago I read this quote on Nancy Kelly's blog and it really, really touched my heart. (it's at the very end of the post)

It really is about getting out of the way and allowing the Holy Spirit do the work in the hearts and minds of your children. ~Nancy Kelly

I then did what most people do - I immediately made it into a printable and hung it on my wall. Here it is if you'd like to print it off for *your* wall. (Please do not share without my permission. Thank you! And I have permission from Nancy to share it with you!)


9/19/2015

Random Thoughts with Catie

Some thoughts I've been pondering lately...

-:- It occurred to me recently that, as a homeschooling mom, I have several roles in my children's lives. (thank you, Captain Obvious, right?) But when we're "in school" I'm their teacher and although I'm learning beside them, I'm also in authority over them in a way that I'm not as "just a mom." I feel like I either need to *change* that thinking, and meld my Teacher Self and Mother Self together OR figure out how to switch back and forth. I don't think it's necessarily fair that my kids have a Teacher Mom all. the. time. or Mother Mom during school. Does any of that make any sense to anyone else? :)

-:- My husband is trying to FIX HIS EYES. He's amazing. No, really. Once he sets his mind to do something, he DOES IT. Now, (even he'll admit) that list is short, mind you. *wink* But he WILL do it.

He's had glasses since middle school and today he told me that for the first time that he could remember, he could read a billboard without his glasses! Amazing! Here are a few books if you're interested: Improve Your Eyesight Naturally and Take Off Your Glasses and See.

-:- I've been chewing on liturgy lately. Like, for the past year or so. ;) It started when I was reading something about Jewish traditions (can't remember what it was) and I thought to myself, "I could use some more tradition and remembering in my life." I feel so rushed--in my relationship with the Lord and otherwise. I wonder if having a repetitive practice (what's the word for a personal liturgy??) would help me to focus more on Jesus and not myself.

I've been reading up on some liturgical faiths, and while I don't subscribe to all of their beliefs (we're evangelical), I *do* think there is *something* to having some "religious activities", if you will, in my life. I'm so distracted and busy; liturgy might allow me the opportunity to STOP and THINK about WHO I'm talking to and WHY, you know?

I've been thinking of how I can incorporate some things into our homeschool day without it becoming a burden or a means to "make us more holy." I'm not sure yet though. It might mean that we do communion at home or just say a prayer or two. We are already memorizing The Lord's Prayer, so that's a good start. :)

Of course, I would never, ever want it to replace my personal, real relationship with Jesus. The veil has been lifted! We can approach the throne of grace with confidence! I know the Lord will be faithful to show me what I need to do (maybe nothing!) if I truly am seeking Him.

It might just be something that *I* need right now and not necessarily for my children. I'm going to give it some more prayer and thought.

-:- I read this this morning in my Quiet Time from My Utmost:

[As Christians] Satan does not tempt us just to make us do wrong things --he tempts us to make us lose what God has put into us through regeneration, namely, the possibility of being of value to God. 

Whoa. This really hit me this morning. How many of us struggle with our place with the Lord? If I really think about it, it isn't so much the sin that I feel guilty about although, that's part of it; it's the feeling that the Lord is continually mad at me, or worse, disappointed, that keeps me feeling distant from Him. Like it's a surprise to Him that I screw up. I'm pretty sure it's not. ;) And I know in my heart that He loves me no matter what.

It really helps me to think about how I feel about my children, when I imagine how the Lord feels about me. I love my children because they are my children. And I'm proud of them, simply because they are my children.

They don't have to do anything to make me love them or be proud of them. It's hard for me to imagine anyone feeling that way about ME, because *I* know who I am, but God loved us (me) first. (1 John 4:19)

And I'm so grateful.

What about you? What's been rolling around in your brain lately? 

PS I'm super excited!!! I and a few friends are going to a Charlotte Mason conference in Rochester, MN today!! WHOOPEE! We'll be gone all day and I'm SO looking forward to chatting with friends and learning more about the Charlotte Mason method! :) :) :) I'll try and write about it here. Although, usually when I say that I'll write about something on my blog it never happens. :/ But I will try!

9/15/2015

Our 2015-2016 School Year Schedule

I have a hard time not being long-winded when it comes to writing about schedules (or anything, for that matter). So, please feel free to gloss over some of the minutia.

There will be a test at the end however.

I don't know how you are, but I am constantly tweaking things (to a fault), trying to make our school day more streamlined.

*hysterical laughter*

Well, it's good to have a plan anyway. ;o)

I actually tried this schedule last week...

...because I thought it looked simpler. And as much as I wanted it to work it just didn't. I really need to have everything in front of me or I feel like I'm flying by the seat of my pants.

So I went back to my original format. I'll show you our current schedule then I'll blather on explain it. My schedule is based on Ambleside Online's curriculum - Year 0 and Year 2.


(click on picture to enlarge)

To some of you, this might look like too much or a bit overwhelming, but I need every. little. thing. on my schedule so I don't forget anything. I have so many distractions these days! Cute distractions, to be sure, but distractions, nonetheless!  

You'll notice there are more spaces for readings than I need. That's because I'm learning to be more flexible. *wink* One day we might finish 1 or 2 readings, the next day we might be able to do 3. Or none!

Everything on my schedule is a guide. We don't actually do math for 20min, 5 times a week. Sometimes it's more, sometimes it's less. Usually less. Ahem. The times are there so I don't get way off track. And so I remember to actually do the thing.

The subjects in purple are the ones that Middlest (my 5 yo) does with us, if she wants to. She usually does. :) I'm not forcing anything with her at this point. She really wanted to do math (MEP Reception) and learn to read (I'm trying Teaching Reading with Bob Books with her), so that's what we're doing.

I'm also working on letter formation with Middlest because I learned the hard way, if you let your child write on their own for a few years, you'll have to re-teach how to write correctly. But again, I'm not forcing it. She wants to "do school", so I roll with it.

Here's what my schedule looks like at the start of the week:


I fill most of it in on Monday, but so much gets changed throughout the week. We just don't get to everything I want to. But it's ok. :)

What I like about doing it this way, is I can see everything at a glance. I even have a Weekly Schedule at the bottom so I know what days we have our Excelsior Guild (CM group) and other weekly commitments. I like having it all right there in front of me.

In the picture below you can see in my binder I have AO's Year 2 schedule next to my Weekly Schedule so I can just fill it in each week.


 Here's a close up of our Year 2 AO schedule. It's messy, eh? Such is life! :)


A few other notes:

-We've been doing most of our school during Littlest's naptime. It's just too hard to do it when he's awake. I try to get our Circle Time done (prayer, Bible reading, memory work and ONE reading) right after breakfast, but sometimes that gets cut short.

The problem with doing school after lunch is that Oldest isn't as "fresh" for school then, so it seems like it's more of a struggle for her. We're working on it, but there's not a lot I can do right now.

- I've tried to cut out a few things and not worry about squeezing all the books in. I've also added a few books (I'm working on a resource list post) so it probably ends up being the same workload as Ambleside Online suggests! But like I said, we do not get to all of it and I'm ok with it.

If you like my schedule, I'm more than happy to share a blank one with you! Just email me and let me know.

Here a few scheduling posts that have been helpful to me:

Afterthoughts - Creating Weekly Schedules for the Whole Year
Joyous Lessons - Our Weekly Checklist
Sabbath Mood Homeschool - I use her PUS planning sheet among other things and it's so helpful.
Simply Convivial (link is to Homeschool Planning page) - I {heart} Mystie's organizational advice. I've been trying to keep up with her on YouTube and Periscope as well as her blog, because she offers lots of practical advice! Here's her Morning Time planning page. LOVE.

I've also copied Mystie's Memory Work Binder (link to video) this year and it's working out well so far! I'm learning so much too!


Here are my 3 Cute Distractions searching for treasures on the railroad tracks. 

I'd love to hear about your school plans. How have you changed your planning over the years? I've found that having a wee one (2yo) makes for an interesting school day! I'm interested in any advice or encouragement.

9/14/2015

I love you because...

This was a project we did in MOPS years ago. (It took me a year or two to actually use it.) It's just a picture frame with scrapbook paper behind it. I use a dry erase marker to write on it, "I love you because..." 

Honestly, it took me so long to use it because I though Mr. N wouldn't appreciate it or would think it was weird or cheesy or whatever. *I* kind of thought it was cheesy, to be honest.

I was wrong. 

One day, I pulled it out and wrote a reason "why I loved him." 

He didn't mention it. (He's not the most vocal person in the world.)

Within the next few weeks I would periodically write reasons I loved him on the glass. Then I stopped because I got busy and forgot. I also wasn't sure he noticed.

And guess what? Mr. N said something like, "Why did you stop writing on the picture frame?" 

Turns out, he was paying attention. He actually said he loved it.

I'll write things like, "I love you because... you helped clean up the kitchen." or "...you go to work everyday." or "...you're a great daddy." Or deeper things like, "...you're hot." 

This frame does 2 things for our marriage: it encourages my husband and it also requires me to be on the lookout for things I love about him. It causes me to focus on the good. Marriage is not easy; I don't have to tell you that. This season of life with Littles can shove our partners to the back burner. The squeaky wheel and all that.

This is a simple way to keep things light and fun and to remember why I love him. What little things do you do to keep things interesting? :) I'd love to hear!

9/08/2015

Nature Study and a Peek Into Our Journals

One of my favorite things about using the Charlotte Mason philosophy for educating our children is it's instilling a love of learning in *me*. (my children, too, of course!) This is especially true of history and Nature Study. (We'll leave history for another time.)

I haven't always been interested in nature. I remember when I was young, my brother (5 years my junior) always wanted to watch nature shows on PBS. It drove me crazy. I thought it was the most boring thing to sit and watch a show about Kodiak Bears (that was one of his favorites that we had on VHS. We watched it. A lot. Not that I'm bitter.)

When our first child was born, I became a little more interested in the world around me. As a new mom, you see everything through your child's eyes and even tiny things become exciting! Look, a BIRD! Look Mama, a ROCK! 

Now that we're incorporating Nature Study into our daily life, I feel like creation is opening up to me like never before. My kids are excited about nature, too, because it's all they've known. And I think that's pretty great. :)

One thing I've noticed that comes from keeping a Nature Journal is it causes us to pay closer attention to the world around us. We're always on the lookout for things we can "put in our Nature Journals." Now, if we only drew in it as often as we intended!

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A few weeks ago, Daddy was playing on the floor with the kids after work and lo and behold! he found this little guy in our living room! 

A Banded Tussock Caterpillar. Isn't he great? We put him in our little critter home and have been feeding 'Pirate' (the girls named him) elm, oak and maple leaves. He seems to be no respecter of leaves.

We're watching him closely for any signs of cocoon-making!


Did you know that some varieties of Tussock caterpillars actually can cause a rash if you touch them?? The one that we have doesn't--Daddy tested it out. ;)

Here he is munching on a leaf. See his two beady eyes?! (Amy, isn't that called a catch-light? ha!)



Not a week later, we found this little BIG guy girl (the girls named her 'Princess') on one of our daily walks. As previously mentioned, we all tend to be on the lookout for interesting things and on this day, I just happened to be looking down at the grass and spotted her. My finger is for scale but I didn't want to get too close, so it's not that accurate! ;o)



She is HUGE at about 3 inches long! I don't know what caterpillars are like where you live, but I have never seen one this big before. Ever. And see the big spike-thingy sticking out on her bum? WEIRD. 

It's a White-Lined Sphinx. Also known as a Hummingbird Moth. HOW COOL IS THAT?! 


We put her in a large jar and only a couple days later did she settle to the bottom to start her cocoon. Apparently, this kind of caterpillar burrows in the ground to make her cocoon.

I tried to get a good picture of the cocoon but this is the best I could do. It's at the very bottom of the jar in the middle of the picture.



Check out what she'll look like after she hatches! Isn't it beautiful? I. cannot. wait. 



And here are our journal entries: 

Oldest's of the Tussock (it reads "Banded Tussock Caterpillar"). So adorable.


Middlest's of the White-lined Sphinx caterpillar: (I die! So stinkin' sweet!)


And mine of 3 of the stages (I didn't do the larval stage). It was very relaxing to sit and draw this. :) I have to remember though, that the point of a Nature Journal is not necessarily just for beauty (although that can be part of it), it's primarily a science book. I should get better at labeling... 


I'm trying to journal a bit more in my Nature Journal. Instead of just drawing pictures of what we see, I'd like to tell a little story each time. How nice would it be for my grandchildren to find Grandma's Nature Journal someday? I want there to be a piece of "me" in it, too. Of course, I want the same for my children, so I'll have to model it.

You can see my Tussock drawing at the top of the next picture. :)


It took me a while to find the right shades of peach and brown for the wings. As a side note, I really need to invest in some good colored pencils. This box of random pencils from our local thrift store isn't cuttin' it.

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Here are a few of my favorite Nature Journal posts:

Nelleke at Education is a Life - I love the idea of not over-complicating things.
Amy at ...these are a few of my favorite things... - They found a Tussock, too! :)
Angela at Wilhites Living Life - I can never believe how many cool critters they see on their walks!
Lisa at Olive Plants All Around My Table - Her daughter's drawings are so pretty.

OK! I'll let you hop on over to Joyous Lessons to see more beautiful Nature Journals and other Keepings.


9/05/2015

Help the Refugees!

I don't read the news very much. Frankly, it's too depressing. It's overwhelming. There's so much pain and hurt in this world it's just. too. much. to handle.

I feel like during this season with little ones, I have to keep the morale up around here and give my children Truth, Beauty and Goodness, if they are to be lights in this dark world. And if I'm reading the news everyday it makes me want to crawl in a hole and never come out.

(That said, I don't shelter them from everything. We've been known to watch a Compassion video or two. Especially if "we" start thinking we have it "hard" around here.)

Don't get me wrong - it's not that we don't do anything. But I can't read about it every day. I just can't. At least not right now. I have every intention of giving my time and energy to the hurting world (namely, sex trafficking!) when my children are grown. There's so much to do out there! But right now, the extent of my help consists of monthly checks to my favorite charities.

I am so thankful I read this article this morning, however. I can't do much, but I can do something. And you can too:

5 Ways to Stand Up and Be The Church in the World's Worst Refugee Crisis Since World War II - Ann Voskamp

Please read this and do what you can to help! Even if it's donating $5 (a cup of coffee). As I read this article, the tears were running down my face. How can we not help? I can't literally go there and hug those children but I can support the people who are able to do something tangible, and so can you.

9/02/2015

Book Review: The Actor and the Housewife

The Actor and the HousewifeThe Actor and the Housewife by Shannon Hale
My rating: 1 of 5 stars

After much some thinking, I decided to go with ONE star. It was a toss-up between 1 and 2.

First, I'll say that I loved the writing itself. Hale, IMHO, is a great writer. I'm looking forward to reading Austenland. :) The first few chapters were LAUGH OUT LOUD funny. But I have to agree with another reviewer--after a while the witty banter between Felix and Becky got old.

So, the writing was very good; the content? Not so much.

I'm not sure if this book was supposed to convince you of the plausibility of the story, or if it was supposed to be far-fetched and just to get you thinking. Either way, I didn't like it. It *wasn't* believable and as a far-fetched story it left a bad taste in my mouth b/c Becky was MARRIED. (That said, a story where an ordinary single girl meets the man of her dreams--*that* would be a good read! Maybe it's been done?)

Not only do I not agree with a married woman having a MAN as a "best friend" I also don't think a "normal" husband would respond the way Mike did. Sure, at first-ish he wasn't cool with it, but eventually he realized that Becky "needed" Felix, so then he encouraged it! WHAT?!

Weird.

SPOILER: I also thought the Mormon thing was strange. Not that she was Mormon--but how would that have worked if they *had* gotten together?!

(PS The reason I read this book was b/c it was recommended by Susan Wise Bauer on the Read Aloud Revival. I would not recommend this book. To anyone.)

View all my reviews

Have you read this book? If so, what did you think?